10.06.2008

Twuuuu Wuv

One of my favorite movies is Princess Bride and one of my favorite parts is the wedding scene  where the bishop says to the bride and groom with his odd accent: "Mawwage" and "Twuuuu Wuv". 

On the other hand, many marriages in Silicon Valley exist as mere business partnerships, negotiated settlements that seek to move the family unit forward in a chase for success. 

Real marriages, however, have an element of 'true love' without the fantasy of perfect romance and real marriages have an element of practical support without becoming simple drudgery.

How to avoid fantasy or drudgery? The key is remembering agape love, remembering that the deepest kind of love is submitting your own life for the sake of another person. That can look practical, romantic, courageous, forgiving, hopeful, sacrificial and full of laughter. Agape love is Jesus' kind of love, it's a love despite existing conditions and it's a love that seeks to redeem the beloved. It's the love that serves rather than be served.

I hope that many of us will be helped by the upcoming marriage seminar, Building a Great Marriage.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Sarah and I signed up for the upcoming seminar this past Sunday. We look forward to participating and learning how to make our marriage stronger.